
I wanted to share this with everyone for two reasons: 1) I’m extremely proud of my wife, Trinette, and the job she does this time of year. 2) I thought maybe some of you would like to be involved in this program. Read on to find out what it is:
Charity needs ‘angels’ for kids M. Diane McCormick
COMMENTARY
Friday, October 09, 2009
Angel trees don’t come from angels.
Sorry I didn’t lead with a spoiler alert, but we’re all grown-ups. We know the truth about Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny and Martha Stewart (you do know that a mortal human with all those Martha powers couldn’t possibly exist, right?).
So, angel trees — those Christmastime displays with slips of paper naming a child and a gift that he or she likes — take coordination that starts long before most of us think about the holidays.
I called Trinette Ream, family services director of the Salvation Army of Harrisburg, for a backstage peek at where angel trees come from.
For the next two weeks, the Salvation Army takes applications from families, documenting income and getting children’s names and the toys they want. Then, Ream coordinates with offices, churches, and even families to find out how many individualized tags each can take.
About 60 angel trees went up last year. One thousand families with 2,200 children sought help. That was 250 more families than the previous year, and Ream expects more this year.
“I’m hoping that we’ll have the sponsorships in the community to be able to meet those needs,” she said.
That’s not a given. Businesses, state offices and churches are hurting, too. One church has already told Ream it can’t participate because the needs in its own community are so great.
Fortunately, participation is flexible. Some offices skip the Secret Santa thing and do an angel tree. Some don’t put up a tree but hang names on a bulletin board.
Others help by sponsoring toy drives, gathering general gifts for toddler boys and 8-year-old girls. Turns out, that’s a big help, too. Say, three kids in one family get their specific angel tree gifts, but nothing came through for little sister Chelsea, Ream told me. Salvation Army volunteers sort through the toy-drive gifts and look for the best match so she won’t feel left out.
Clearly, the Salvation Army works hard to make this all happen. Volunteers do everything from collecting documentation at this month’s intake sessions to stringing the tags.
I just had to ask a question that I thought might sound heretical, but Ream said she hears it all the time: When needs are so great for so many people, why do we gear up for the holidays?
Families struggle all year long, she said. On one day in December, parents can make their children feel special.
“Many people faced with foregoing paying a bill or buying a Christmas present would opt to not pay a bill,” she said. “We try to eliminate that difficult decision by saying, ‘At least your child is going to have one gift under the tree.’”
By the way, I’m starting to rethink my earlier premise. Maybe angel trees really do come from angels — but these angels carry spreadsheets instead of harps.
Want to be an angel? Call the Salvation Army at 233-6755 and ask for Trinette.